How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 00:31
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Procrastinates a lot.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
If there was only one man remaining on the Earth, would this be regarded as extinction?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Why is Harley-Davidson dropping diversity initiatives after the right-wing anti-DEI campaign?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Ask yourself:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why do our deceased do not protect us from other bad spirits?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Why was Boromir corrupted by the One Ring, but not Faramir in The Lord of the Rings?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hangs out with loser friends.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Is it okay for a wife who comes home from a date to tell her husband what she did?
What I need from you?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Do all therapists specialize in one specific type of therapy, or are they trained in multiple types?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
That's it for today.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Are there really people who still believe the Earth is flat?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What does "feeling like your life is over" mean and why is it not in any dictionary online?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does not procrastinate.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.